Wow! You guys are all awesome! I really feel so alone, but I actually feel so much better seeing all of you are in the same place as I am. I, too, hate my husband. He's such a jerk! And tells me daily I'm the one with a problem.... let me tell you, you, husband are my problem. He never cleans up after himself, ever!! We literally never talk to each other for a few reasons: 1)we work opposite shifts and 2)all he does is sit on his computer and plays video games when we are at home at the same time. I work nights, clean all day and then come home to a disaster. He dosnt turn off the lights, and leaves all his shit all over. When I ask for help with anything, he straight up tells me "I don't care!" Well, I do!! Oh!!! And what pisses me off more than anything, the cabinet doors are always open. Why th he'll does he do this?? It dosnt make any since. Anyway, this is just the tip of the ice berg. I don't think I would ever have enough room to write everything I feel I could.
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25
October
2013
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Angie916
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When I met my husbandt,I was engaged to another,that fell thru due to me not being able to have children.First engagement said it was fine,we would work past it.But he was just possesive,turned into resentment,abuse,cheating.I left that "man" for my now husband. When we met,I was still with the other,my husband now knew all our issues,abuse/possessiveness. We grew as friends,He was my Support when I needed.I saw the death of a parent,the loneliness of being told by another that im nothing since I cant give life.My husband now comforted me,told me non of that was true,he loved me the way I was,that we should be together.I got together with him because I truly believed that I was special to him,even thought I cant have kids,that despite that,he would love me no matter what.We have been together 3years.Im happy with him,We have issues,but who doesn't. Then his friends get pregnant,Now he is baby crazy.Now its an issue that im not "trying to have a kid",and its my fault,I feel alone.Help
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25
October
2013
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confused
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I hate my husband. And it's so great to find this site and be able to relate to you all! There are sooooo many problems in our "relationship" that I can't possibly post them all here!
-We don't physically talk to each other. I try so hard, but he ignores me, straight up. He either plays on his phone, is on computer game, or just leaves on his stupid motorcycle he just bought.
-He dosnt clean, ever. In fact the opposite of that. I work nights, clean during the day and every time I come home, it's a disaster again. I dont even ask him to help any more because when I do, he straight up says he dosnt care what the house looks like or what I have to say. In my mind, cleaning and chores are just apart of life, how can you possibly just "not do them?"
-I have to do literally everything around the house, but no only that, I work twice as many hours as he does and make most of the money. Then, his lazy ass just spends all the money.
It's nice to get it out and vent once in a while.
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25
October
2013
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Angie916
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I love my husband but lately things have changed. Before we got married, he was extremely "clingy". I'm actually happy sometimes he works out of town because i actually get some space and he doesn't like to clean up after himself. He will pee on our bathroom floor behind the toilet, leave his dirty clothes on the floor and doesn't like to flush. Just keeps stuffing the toilet with tissue instead of putting it in the trash after blowing his nose. Omg, i hate that he spits everywhere! When I'm in the shower he sticks his head in and hawk spits! I stopped using the bathroom in our bedroom. I use the other because it's cleaner. I don't like him on top of me when we have sex because he's heavy and his penis is small so no other position is possible aand I won't have an orgasm. He doesn't want me to have sex toys even though he works out of town and cannot please me so I rather do it myself. Sex has become meaningless to me not being able to get pregnant. I
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25
October
2013
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DesperateHousewife
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Wish I never met my husband. I ruined my life marrying him. i left the best job i ever had to move in with him then he loses his house. He's terrible in bed never lasts more than 60 seconds. If that isn't bad enough, he is totally passive in bed and i have to do everything! I told him I need him to be more forceful he won't listen. I have a horrible job at a group home overnights making minimum wage, have to cook clean do laundry change diapers, and get beat up by residents all night. I cry all the time about it he won't let me quit and he makes double what I do. He works comes home and it's relaxation time. I work and come home to taking care of him, cooking cleaning animal care. He does a little cleaning when he's drunk or stoned and thinks he's great. He's possessive and smothering and won't give me a minutes peace. I can no longer read or watch tv when he is around its all his shows etc. and when he finally allows me to go to bed to read I'm so tired I fall asleep. I hate him
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23
September
2013
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Sick of it all
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20
September
2013
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Daviswife13
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After many years of my jackass of a husband putting me down and letting me know frequently how he doesn't think I'm good enough for him, I have come to hate him. I mean really loathe him. Despise him. Detest him. Who does he think he is? God's gift to women? (And trust me ladies, he ain't no fucking gift). The only woman who thinks he's as good as he thinks he is, is his mother and she's really insane and makes up weird shit all the time. So after years of his verbal abuse, I've become less than my former self and have let myself go so to speak. I'm such crap no matter what I do or have done, why bother to even try anymore? And he wonders why I've become this way. What happened to that bright, attractive, compassionate woman with the great sense of humor? He drug her down and stomped on her until there was nothing left metaphorically speaking. And he wonders why it is that I hate his guts and why I have come to treat him the way I do? I treat him like he has always treated me!
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18
September
2013
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I am a stay at home mom and according to my jerkoff husband I am completely worthless. Raising our child and running the household count for nothing. Whenever we disagree, he just throws the fact that I don't work in my face, like that solves everything in his mind. I don't work, so I'm automatically wrong? If I try to get him to help with the housework that he contributes to because I'm getting overwhelmed with the baby and the amount of messes and lack of sleep involved and having to cook and clean 24/7 he throws the lack of job in my face, too. Like if I ask him to pick up after himself or point out that I'm the only one who does dishes and laundry (his, too he showers twice a day so makes more laundry to do than the baby)or how he never helps with the baby, he says,"you never bring home a paycheck." like that settles it all. He thinks I'm his slave because he works and I don't. I don't get any credit for raising our baby. I hate him so much I want to smash his ugly face in everyday
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18
September
2013
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Worthless
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I am called fat, cow, disgusting, b****,c*** and whore. I am a stay at home mom who isn't allowed to go anywhere. I don't have any friends because he hates them all and my family doesn't even invite me over anymore because they know it will be a disaster when he comes around. He likes to put me down in front of his friends and say things like, "you stupid b****, you don't know what the F*** your doing." and "....that's how a man is supposted to talk to his wife." He tells me to hit the road when I try to talk to him about his abusive behavior and says he will have another wife by tomorrow. Im scared of him and what he would do to my daughter if I leave him. I don't have anywhere to go. I cant even talk to his mother about it because he treats her the same way!!

I feel like the lord is with me and that is all that gets me out of bed in the mornings.
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16
September
2013
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16
September
2013
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fucked over by man my whole life
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