Well, here I go again. My husband had a job for a whole 4 MONTHS. The ENTIRE time he complained and bitched and moaned at how unfair they treat him and how the boss was just out to get him. He would tell me things that were going on and I would feel so bad but I come to find out that everything he told me was the opposite! So again, I am the bread winner. I don't know how much longer I can do this. For once I would like be able to take a day off without feeling guilty about how I am going to make up that money. Sometimes I just want to throw him out but then I feel bad for thinking that because then our kids would have to go through all the same crap we went through growing up with fighting parents. Sometimes, I day dream about leaving him and finding some new guy who actually has a job to be able to help my kids and myself and not have to worry if I'll have enough to pay rent and have food in my fridge and pay the electric FOR ONCE. Sometimes, I don't know if I still even love him...
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June
2013
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Watenonsiiostha
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He is an idiot and stupidity has never been an attractive trait to me, his idea of foreplay is holding himself and smiling, or worse (fondling himself while he watches porn), and he used to be a half-ass decent looking man with a somewhat muscular body and is now a rough looking scrawny man who looks much older than he actually is. He doesn't shave or even keep his scruffy facial hair tidy or trimmed up. He dresses like a hobo, torn shirts, paint splattered pants...and that is to go out! His idea of a haircut is to just shave his head pig-shave style. Most of the time he's even too lazy to do that and it is just messy, sticking out everywhere hair. His eyebrows are big bushy clumps over his eyes and he even grows hair on his nose! YUCK. Not only does his physical appearance do nothing to get me going, but his attitude sucks and more often than not just grosses me out that a human being could be so pathetic! How did I ever marry this man??? Why did he become so disgusting???
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June
2013
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Blahblah
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I love my husband, but it's getting harder each day. I see the good in him, but I see the bad in him too. I can't seem to get over the bad. My husband has a porn addiction and it tears me up inside. He's came out with it and we began to deal with it together, but I thought that was enough to stop it. He continues to watch and we have an baby together. I don't want him watching that crap when I need him to watch her for me.
I read that porn addiction can lead to other things and how husbands lie to their wives. I pray that he isn't doing other things that could ruin our marriage. I get skeptical because he acts like he is single. He has few friends that are married, so he goes out when he wants to and wherever without telling me. I'm not saying he needs to ask permission but I should know where he's at. I'm tired of feeling like a dummy thinking hes at work and I'm waiting for him for dinner or to try to look sexy for him when he comes home, but he's off somewhere else.
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June
2013
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Angel123
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June
2013
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john
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June
2013
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I am disabled, but have a very weak work history,since I was a housewife but always had part-time employment
I do receive a very small social securty check because my health insurance is taken out which leaves me $73.00

my husband gets a pensen and social security check he does pay the rent, we food shop while I clean the apt do the dishes and other house hold chores

I use a stool with wheels to do these chores since I have severe narrowing of the spine

I have lost controle of my bladder be cause of my spine, I asked my husband for a wife allowance of $200.00 a month so I can get these personal items he tells me know, use towels, yet he is buying flat screen tv, the most updated flat screen computer, sterios for $300.00 off the streets also loaning out money which most of the time he does not get back,I want to know how can I leaglly get spouse support from my husband with-out a devoice















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May
2013
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goldprnt
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May
2013
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GJ
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May
2013
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Telly
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Love him but wish I could leave. Together 19 years, two kids. I'm 40, he's 45. First- and I don't care if you think this is vain or selfish- I've gained about 15 pounds after 19 years and two kids. Im in hood shape. I worl out to stay healthy. He's gained 80. I'm not physically attracted to him anymore and he doesn't care. Sex is me laying there wishing it was over. He's also completely financially irresponsible. He works full time, I work per diem and go to college to be a nurse. Since he brings in more money, I'm worthless. The money that I dont use to pay bills will get spent by him on junk, cigarettes, and fast food. I went back to school because my job closed, knowing things would be tight financially for awhile, and I'm working as much as I can. I cook , clean, go to school, run the kids around, work third shift. He leaves food , dishes, clothes laying aroundeverywhere. Lies all the time for no reason. I don't know how we went from best friends to this.
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May
2013
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Coll
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DH just diagnosed at 52 with Aspergers Syndrome. Now there is a reason why I have wanted to put my head in a wood chipper for the sweet release of death. All the tears, the being ignored, all the fucking weirdness, this is why. He sees it as a reason why he can't change. His life bobs along like a 13 year old child. Fired from work. No chance of ever getting past the interview phase for a job. After 22 years of marriage, I'm pulling the plug. His shrink says he'll wind up in a group home if I leave. Don't care. Let his in denial immediate family handle the fetal position screaming meltdows. All the never ending sensory horseshit. Too hot, cold, sticky, loud, weird tasting, scratchy, fuck, it's never ending. To all you dating ASD guys, if you want Dante's Inferno, IRL, just walk down the aisle with him. In 6 months, after your soul is shattered by weirdness, you'll want to eat a Glock for breakfast.
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20
May
2013
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NT wife
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